Can someone get marriage or divorce? How can you divorce a person without getting or planning to get married?

There is a wedding ceremony at which you can take a person in your own hand in the hand. Why is taking marriage (few or no) better than taking everything you found to be true.

The divorce is legal and is a court process. Many people seek divorce immediately.

Why is the verb “married” active in the verb prepositions? If I marry someone, I’m the subject of the verb. I am married, I’m the subject, and the subject is either the officiant or just missing from the sentence entirely.