If a self-centered person sees himself as centre of everything, he/she cannot think about what his actions might mean to other people. What is the best way to look at this? For example For sex. Blind people are too self-evident and seek help from others. They don’t really need help from any other person. A self-centered person would reach out to a blind person, catch his hand and help him across the road, not really bothering to find out if that person wanted help in the first place. Only his actions count, he wants the world to think the best of him. He does not care much what blind people think of him. The blind man doesnt like to be affected.

If a blind man was to be left alone to wait for the other side to help him, why would I help him? If he must, it is conditional (whether he has time, is not too inconvenienced, etc.).