0
Points
Questions
0
Answers
1
-
Asked on March 8, 2021 in Other.
Oui,
It’s a way of talking to a person without initial using a command or some other request with inherent obligation or further action implied that could happen in public. What do I take off of my initial commitment to make a committment?
What should I be drinking? Let me buy you water. vs. “ahem, can I buy you a drink?
Are you a
good dancer? How do I Dance with Me?
What is the
premise behind having another drink? Should people have another drink?
This way a asker can assess the interaction and make a nice offer or become disinterested without having made the obligation already. The first part of asking Q&A takes pressure off the person asked the question. Which can be a very good answer?
However the goal is typically to buy them a drink, not so much to offer them but just imply that you will be doing it without the other person’s expressed acceptance.
- 1035538 views
- 1 answers
- 388518 votes