Reminding others of one’s favors for them
What do you call a person who reminds other people of one’s way and favors them? Is it best to fight a person who will tell you I was wrong and I did this for you? I want to tell them that it’s inappropriate to remind others of the favors you did for them, especially if I appreciate those favors and try my best to return them.
Agree on’self-interested’,’ self-centered might also be appropriate: Concerned
solely with one’s own desires, needs, or interests.
I’d call them a scorekeeper.
What is the
difference between a scorekeeper and a announcer?
How are we in this Art of Manliness
article: We sometimes have arguments. Other times we have lots to argue. For example, in this Art of Manliness article: And a good percentage of them used to be over who was taking care of what, and whether one person wasn’t pulling their weight enough in the relationship.
Which
couples fall into The Tit For Tat Trap (As I Said :)?? If you do this I will only do this. Please do it” And if you stop doing what I expect from you, I will stop doing what you expect of me, and I won’t tell you this. “And
when
it comes to accurately keeping score in a relationship, we suck.
At
this point you might be thinking to yourself: Scorekeeping is something douchey guys do in a relationship. Can someone actually help me, but not me. I am a generous man in my relationships. ”
Google’scorekeeping -app argument’ for more examples.
